By Hasnain Arshad at Howell Jones LLP
Christmas is often seen as a time of joy and togetherness, but for families dealing with divorce or separation, it can be a time of uncertainty. Disputes over child arrangements, financial pressures and emotional stress can be heightened during the festive period. However, with guidance and thoughtful planning, it is possible to make the holiday period positive for all parties.
Child Arrangements over Christmas
For separated families, deciding how the children will spend the holiday period is often the most pressing concerns. It is encouraged for parents to work together to agree on arrangements that prioritise the best interests of the child.
Effective planning can include:
- Start Early: Start planning and making decisions ahead of the festive period to avoid disputes
- Keep it child-centred: Focus on what will make the children the happiest and their wishes
If you’re struggling to reach an agreement, mediation can be a beneficial route to resolve differences without resorting to Court.
Financial Pressures During the Festive Period
Christmas often comes with extra financial pressures which can intensify existing disputes.
Tips for managing finances
- Set a budget: Agree on a holiday spending plan that works for both parents to avoid the financial strain
- Adapt where needed: Agree to financial adjustments in writing
- Coordinate gifts: Communicate with your co-parent to avoid competition or duplication of gifts
Looking Ahead to the New Year
As the New Year approaches, use the opportunity to reflect on what worked well and consider any adjustments to co-parenting arrangements that could improve the year ahead. We can support you prepare for the New Year by:
- Reviewing existing arrangements: We can assess whether child or financial arrangements need updating to reflect changing circumstances
- Planning for divorce or separation: If you are considering divorce or separation, we can provide initial advice on your rights and how to effectively navigate this.
- Drafting new agreements: We can provide tailored agreements or parenting plans for families seeking to formalise their arrangements for the future
If you’re finding the festive period challenging and there are unresolved disputes, consider reaching out to our Family Law in Surrey team to help you find practical solutions.
We can offer tools to help families through transitions, ensuring the focus remains on protecting children’s welfare and fostering positive relationships. Support is available to help you navigate these challenges, so you can focus on making the season as warm and harmonious as possible for your family.
Contact us today on 01932 234500 to receive expert advice.
